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Exciting pearls of sweat

However, it happens that the beast that hibernates in us wakes up without complexes! "I hate sweating, but in bed with my man, what would usually revolt me ​​becomes exciting," says Fabienne, 45. These fragrant beads of sweat reveal to the partner all the intensity of the sexual pleasure he feels. They translate the gift of self and contribute to prolonging the exchange. “For his part, he tells me that I am the only one to “clear” so much. It does not upset him, on the contrary, ”continues Fabienne. In a climate of trust, unpleasant overtones are no longer a barrier.

“I never liked to kiss full on the mouth in the morning,” says Michèle. Except my husband. It was not awkward because we used to sleep together, to share our most intimate smells. “It is also thanks to him that she can affirm:” I do not hate the sweet smell of my sex. "He smells like bananas," he told her shortly after they were married. Sensual men know the erogenous power of this forbidden fruit from which they can finally collect the juice... But "the vaginal flow could also have a pheromonal function", suggests the psychobiologist Gérard Brand (author of Olfaction, from molecule to behavior, Solall, 2001).

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If eroticism allows you to accept the smell of the other, it does not always erase your own complexes. Thus, Fabienne also supports the morning breath of her spouse, but goes to brush her teeth before the first kiss of the day. "It's a kind of politeness, refinement towards the other," she explains. Despite the exciting role of perspiration within her couple, she constantly carries wipes in her handbag, puts on deodorant even if she has to stay cloistered at home alone, wears makeup and perfumes in the hospital or just before to give birth. A concern for perfection in order to exist, to give oneself body... Or, as Annick Le Guérant thinks, a scrambling of olfactory trails which avoids provoking in others "a temptation to coitus that his person does not desire".

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